47 [M4A] ok is it really that big?

I have a lot of positive qualities as I man I think. I’m caring, thoughtful, sweet, pretty good in the sack. But maybe 20 years ago a friend said “I mean, you are this skinny guy with a huge cock!” which really took me aback? It’s not like that huge. But maybe it looks big on me? Anyway, would love someone to talk to about it… and your experiences with taking cock of different sizes and whether it’s a big deal or just something we all talk about…