Been in the dating scene for almost 2 years now. Need advice and or help to actually meet someone.

I really really need advice. I live the West Valley of Arizona (Phoenix Area) and I have quite literally tried almost everything. I've set up multiple dating apps (including Facebook Dating), went to bars, tried singles trips/events etc. and I have not found anyone to even talk to that lasts longer than 15 minutes.

I've considered that maybe it's something wrong with me? I know being 6ft+ isn't a problem but is it the dad bod? Is it that | like cars? Do woman my age group (20-28) just don't want someone like me in their lives? Like what the hell am I doing wrong seriously. The last "date" that I went on was at the beginning of the year... Literally had a whole day together (Arcade, Mini Golf, Nice Dinner, Bookstore Browsing etc.) and then the next day... poof.

I'm tired of being alone in this world. I want to be with someone who that I find attractive for who they are but also finds me attractive for who I am and ultimately what we both could become. Does anyone have any other ideas or recommendations or even just suggestions on what I can do to find my person?