Military or Community College

So guys I got diagnosed in middle school right after Covid hit causing me to forget everything I had learned to mask (still struggling lmao) and anyways I’ve kinda realized I’m stuck with the fact I cannot afford college and I have no direction in life. So right now, I’m currently stuck between either joining the military or attending community college. Even though I don’t really have a direction, I do enjoy psychology, therapy, business and economics which I can work towards a major for hopefully have a solid career. However, I’m kinda stuck between these decisions because I don’t really know anybody on the spectrum, so I just wanted to hear personal experiences and maybe advice about this please?