People who are getting divorced and even children of parents who divorced.

I’m quite confused. Parents constantly say, “I put my kids first always,” but once it comes to a relationship, a MARRIAGE, with the person you, I suppose, had kids with, it’s all about you. I’m a little lost. I also believe that being friends for 5 GOOD years before even dating, to get to thoroughly know someone, is important. I notice when people get divorced, they start saying, “Oh, he was a POS. He never helped,” and so on and so forth. But it’s like the signs were there in the friendships and dating. Like, somebody doesn’t just randomly decide, “Oh, I’m gonna cheat on my wife today because I wanna be a POS.” No, they were like that all along. You just didn’t see it clear enough. Idk if it’s because I’m very emotionally intelligent, but I see people getting into relationships after only a few months. NOT IN THIS GENERATION, HELL NO. People manipulate, lie, guilt-trip. The whole 9 yards. This isn’t anything new.