Mercury - dominated

Someone made a very good post about mercury in love and the kind of issues people go through due to that.

I have a mercury atmakaraka and the amount of analysis I do in every area of life is debilitating. I thought Mercury would make me more fun outgoing and all. But it has made me a deep investigator. Also maybe some nakshatras i have might have contributed.

But especially in love, I have a hard time not overanalyzing and letting myself feel.

I analyze everything to the tee as if it is some computer program I could solve. But it just ruins things for me. It’s not even attractive. And i’m unable to let my guard down and enjoy…..

Does anyone know a way out of it?