Wife doesn’t like the idea of sex

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Assalamu alikum,

I am 24M, recently got married to 20F, we live in North America, but originally from India.

It’s been 2 months I am married to my wife and a week we started living together.

We haven’t yet consummated our marriage, my wife doesn’t even sleeps with me.

She has told me that she doesn’t like the idea of sex. The marriage was arranged but she had her full consent. After marriage she has told me multiple times she initially thought she was ready but after marriage now when she started living with me she is saying that she was completely unprepared for marriage.

She is going to university and working part time right now, so she doesn’t even tries to spend time with me. I am trying everything to engage her with me.

Right now I am being extremely patient thinking she is 20, and with time it will improve but my situation is bothering me a lot. May Allah resolve our problems.

Her family is extremely nice to me, I am not sure what should i do, should i involve her family in this matter.

Any mature advice in this matter will be helpful.

Posted Sep 13, 2026, 6:17 AM UTC · locked

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