49 [M4M] Looking for patient Dom for regular get togethers

I'm looking for something specific and I'd like to find someone who is a good fit. I need someone who is dominant, but can respect my boundaries. I've done a lot of exploring in the last couple of years and I know a lot about what I like and what I don't like but there are things I'm still looking to try. I'm hoping to find someone who enjoys doing at least some of things I like, won't try to get me to do things I don't like, and who will help me explore things I'm interested in. I'm looking for regular get togethers, maybe once a week or so. I can host in North Seattle.

Things I need. These are all dealbreakers.

• A great communicator. I'm going to want to talk a lot before meeting and I need someone who can communicate back to me.
• Clean/DDF. I'll have recent tests before we meet and I would like someone who can do the same.
• Honor my boundaries. More on that below.
• Lives fairly close to me. I'm in North Seattle. That makes setting up meeting times much easier.
• Is available regularly during the day. That's when I am most available, though I can be available at other times as well.
• Dirty talk. This more than anything gets me going. It's almost all mental for me. I will also do a lot of talking.
• Patience.
• A dominant with a calm demeanor. I don't respond well to dominants who are aggressive, it's just not my thing. I'll happily do whatever you tell me you don't need to yell at me.

Things I love to do/have done to me. You don't have to do all of these, but if you don't like any of them it might be a problem.

• Submitting and being told what to do. I will be an enthusiastic submissive for you. Especially if you do the things on this list.
• Sucking cock
• Facials and getting cum on me.
• Swallowing.
• Play with/suck on my nipples. I'll turn into an absolute slut for you if you do that.
• Verbal degradation. This gets tricky, but I love being called names and being forced to admit how much I love being your submissive slut.
• Being touched/sucked. Definitely not a requirement, but I do love it.

Things I won't do. I've tried all these things and they just don't work for me. They are all dealbreakers so if you need any of the things on this list we aren't a good match.

• Pain. I feel like I should like it, I just don't. It takes me out of it.
• Punishment. Same as pain.
• Wanting to control me outside of being together. I've got a really busy life. This is an escape for me, not something I want to be all the time. Talk to me normally when we aren't together, take control when we are.

Things I want to try.

• Getting fucked. I've never been fucked by a real cock. This is something I really want to try but it's not going to happen right away so I need patience. I have lots of ideas on how I want to approach it and will want to talk about it long before it ever happens.
• Bondage.
• Threesomes. I'd eventually like to have a threesome with you and another submissive and you and another dominant.

There's actually a lot more I want to try but these are the big ones right now.

More about me. I'm a divorced dad. I'm a bigger guy, 5'11/230 with a shaved head and beard. It's totally cool if I'm not your type, but let's not waste each other's time. Like I said before, I'm not picky about looks or age, I'm attracted to the kind of dominance I laid out above.