Women over their late 20s,how did you guys handle your family about marriage and all?

Like I'm 22f I came out to my parents when I was 18 but my parents are still in denial..my elder sis is fine with me now.

They're buying jewelry and just ignore me when I try to have conversations about this..my mom has a promise to the temple god that if I marry she'll donate something

She did this same thing when i was with my ex and after my breakup I got to know she gave gold jewellery to kali ma(fucking dramatic)

She is kind of a heart patient but narc tbh...and my father is not good either (he does cheap tricks ik that actually scare me at some point)

Ik there'll be a ugly fight when my marriage topic will come and ik I'm not gonna marry a man even if I have to live alone ..but I'm scared if my mom can take it(like whenever these topics come up she becomes visibly ill.. like breathing issues,can't walk and all)

I don't like them at all and I'm trying to get a job far from them... atleast I'm not going to live with them.

But I'm scared of what will happen to them...it's not their fault..they never knew these things..

Yeah they're still toxic parents.. manipulative but they're my parents.

So how did you guys handle yours?how are you guys living?