I recently found out na may existing arrest warrant pala yung husband ko.

We’ve been married for about a year, and a few months after we got married, nagsimula na siyang mag-mention na may kailangan siyang ayusin, may NBI hit daw siya, etc. Eventually, sinabi niya sakin na may VAWC case siya.

Apparently, ilang years ago pa pala na-file yung case, pero I had absolutely no idea before we got married. Since freelance yung work niya and hindi naman siya usually kumukuha ng NBI clearance, hindi ko rin talaga nalaman. Looking back, may times na mabilis uminit ulo niya, pero sobrang bihira naman na hindi ko siya ever considered na serious red flag.

Honestly, sobrang shocked ako, although may small part sakin na hindi rin completely surprised. He seemed like a good guy naman, pero yung vibes niya, parang hindi rin impossible na may ganitong nangyari.

Sabi niya hindi naman daw siya guilty and gawa-gawa lang daw ng ex niya yung allegations. Currently, pinoprocess daw niya yung case para ma-dismiss.

Ang mas mahirap ngayon is I’m currently pregnant with our first child. Kaya hindi ko talaga alam kung ano ba dapat kong maramdaman or gawin. I feel like I married someone without knowing something this major about his past, and now may baby na kami.

Part of me wants to believe him, especially since sinasabi niyang false yung allegations. Pero another part of me keeps thinking, what if hindi pala lahat ng sinasabi niya sakin is true? Ang hirap din malaman kung saan ako magsisimula kasi ngayon ko lang talaga nalaman yung buong situation.

Has anyone experienced something similar? What would you do if you found out na may existing case and arrest warrant pala yung spouse mo, especially if you’re already pregnant with your first child?