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thedamnfooledguy

The bestfriend love act..

Jab mai 10th class me thaa..(nov 2024) mere tau ki ldki ki shaadi thii nov me.. then mere tai ke bhai ki ldki wahan aai thii obviously but hamari itni baat wagera ni hoti thii because of work but shaadi 4 nov ko khtm ho gyi.. (2-4 tk thii shaadi) so ek rasm ke acc hume dd ke saath jija ke ghr Jana thaa.. so like wo toh dd ke saath hi thii or mai mere bhaiyon ke saath thaa.. baad me puja wagera ke acc humara lunch late ho gya thaa(around 2:30) so like ek table sitting area hota h and ke ground sitting area hota h.. mai or baaki sb upar waale me thee.. or wahan mai uss se thodi bohot baat kr ra thaa.. fir hum sb ek hi gaadi me jaa re the.. mai wo or ek bachii hum piche baithe thee..(wo tb 9th me thii) fir like hum dono uss bachii ki harkaton ka mazaak udaa thee thee and hassii mazaak chl ra thaa hum dono me.. and then jb hum ghr pohunche.. mai mera bda bhai(uska real bua ka ldka) or wo aag ke pass baithe thee and ghr ke bdee ek alag room me thee.. wahan pe wo log shaadi ki baat wagera kr re thee or hum log apna hassii mazaak.. or meri or uski achi vibe match ho ri thii.. fir like next day usko Jana thaa around 4pm or uss se pehle bhi hum dono ki baatein ho hi rhii thii.. fir wo chli gyi but maine usko insta pe req bheji thii(tb mai insta ni chlata thaa) and then maine usko message wagera kiya but wo dry reply wagera kr ri thii toh maine id delete kr di thii.. then around 23 nov maine fir se insta bnai and iss baar like badhiya se baat ki thii usne then humari badia baatein chl pdi.. hum rozz baat wagera krte thee.. then ek reason ki wajah se mera acc delete ho gya fir maine ek or I'd bnai fir jb maine txt kiya toh like wo gussa ho ke puch ri thii ki like maine kyu Kiya thaa itne din acc bnd.. (tb maine usko bestie bna liya thaa..) so uske baad hmari baatein rozz hoti thii.. fir ek vajah se mera acc suspend ho gya.. so then uss se baat bnd ho gyi around 25th March wo mere real ghr aai Hui thii..(meri father ki job around 20km door h ghr se so hum gov quater me rehte h..) so mughe usne nhi btaya thaa ki wo aa ri h(uska bday 19th ko aata h or mera 5th March ko) so humari baat shayad bnd thii 21 march se.. fir wahan pe like jb mai gya so like mughe pta thaa ki wo aai h coz meri mummy or tai ki baat Hui thii.. uss time pe mere boards or uske final papers khtm ho gye thee.. but mughe tension thii stream choose krne ki or mere papa bol rhe thee ki tughe chandigarh ya dharmshala bhej denge pdhne ke liye or mughe mera schl pasand ni thaa so mughe wo bhi change Krna thaa or iss tension me line mai uss se baat ni kr paa ra thaa.. usne like 2-3 times baat start krne ki try ki but maine ache se baat ni ki.. fir like maine nyi I'd bnai but usse follow ni kiya iss baat.. then around 2nd June ussne mughe follow kiya but usne bhi text ni kiya or maine bhi.. fir like jo chiz usko pasand aati liye mere notes wagera ke song ya story so wo like kr deti or kbhi kbhi mai but bohot km krte thee ye chizz humm.. fir like ye chizz bnd hi ho gyi thii.. firr meri bhen ka baby hua around 6 august so hume wahan pe function thaa so wo bhi aai thii but baat wagera ni hui kyonki wo uske mummy ke saath thii.. fir ek rasm thii so like wahan pe wo meri tarf dekhe jaa ri thii.. or like 1-2 times hamara short eye contact bn ra thaa.. fir wo function khtm or fir iss saal june me mughe uske note ka ek gana pasand aaya so maine like kr diya fir next day maine note lgaya toh ussne like kr diya.. fir jb bhi mai ko bhi story lgata thaa so wo like kr deti thii.. (wo story me sirf mention deti thii apni ni lgati thii) so agar wo note lgati toh main like kr deta thaa.. or around 30th June mughe ek function thaa so like mai uska note like ni kr paya or jb nxt day maine note lgaya toh ussne bhi ni kiya like.. fir isski ek mutual friend ne mughe insta pe follow Kiya and maine bhi follow back kr diya fir iski friend ne bhi meri story ki thii like , notes kiye like and wo mughe reels wagera bhi bhej ri thii ki "tell me how to impress you" waale quotes but mai ignore kr ra thaa and wo bhi 10mins me unsend kr de ri thii.. ussne ye 3-4 times ya shayad zyada bhi kiya ho.. fir raat ko 11pm pe kra ussne txt fir maine pucha ki kon ho tum.. fir wo reply krti ki sorry nothing.. or text unsend krne lg pdi.. fir maine bhi mera kon ka text delete Kiya(maine reply Kiya thaa uske quote or hello pe..).. fir maine usko block kr diya.. fir mere ek dost se maine indirectly iss bare me pucha toh wo kehta ki ussne ss ke liye kiya hoga ye ki ye dekh issne merko first text kra thaa.. then maine usko kra text ye sb puchne ke liye.. but i like her soo soo soo soo soooo much.. iss pure ek saal me mughe hr time uski hi yaad aati rhi.. and jb hum baat krte thee so wo mughe id wagera de deti thii.. kbhi kbhi bina maange bhi like password change krne ke bahane se.. or mai uss se bohot pyaar krta hu.. (reply only in eng) and abhi thode din pehle jb monsoon ki holidays hoti h tb uski following ke ek mutual friend ne mughe follow Kiya then maine mzee mzee me follow back kr diya.. then uski friend baar baar reel bhejti thii ki "how to impress you handsome" etc etc.. and then mai ignore kr deta thaa.. or wo 10 mins me unsend kr de ti thii.. and then at night usne fir se essi hi ek reel bheji and ek hello ka text bhi kra then maine uske reply kra kon so ussne wotext and reel wagera unsend kr di and then maine bhi kon unsend kr diya.. then 3 days baad jb main eapni bestie se pucha toh usne btaya ki uski dost ke bhai behn ke pass hota h uski friend ka acc toh uske chte bhai ne kiya h wo text..

Posted Sep 14, 2026, 8:01 PM UTC

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