There are so many extreme stan (as in: whale/following around the world) fangirls that are so otherworldly pretty and... it's just so sad. It's a shame that "real" men suck so much that that's what they are resorting to.

Several social media sites keep suggesting me the same small amount of whales/extreme stans/groupies from my fandoms. Several of them have a guy as their bias who I would bet my left hand is gay (no, he isn't part of any ship and no, not a glass closet case).

Not only that: while their bias is a guy that comes across as likeable, unless we are talking purely wealth and fame, they'd be LIGHTYEARS out of his league.

I just think it's really sad. I wish they had better dating options in the straight dating market. I also wish they could focus on themselves more.