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Mavrosama

My (soon to be ex?) Asked for a break today and says he's not sure he loves me anymore

venting/ranting

I 19f have been with my boyfriend 21m for almost 8 months. Today he asked for us to talk and I figured he wanted to talk about his mental health cause we both had a pretty hard year. But when we met he didnt hug nor kiss me as usual. Then he told me that for a week now he's been feeling like he's using me cause he doesnt feel love for me anymore.

He said that he's been getting help for his mental health and that he got a pretty good support system now and that's what he's been looking for when he wanted a gf. Now he says that he doesnt have romantic feelings for me anymore and he sees me more as a friend.

And he also said that he needed some more time to think about it but that we probably wont get back together

For me this totaly came out of the blue cause we had a movie night just a week prior and we had a lot of fun. I never felt like he didnt love me anymore.

Even during the "breakup" convo we were both crying and he would hug me and be loving towards me

So im so fucking confused rn and im crying my eyes out. I dont wanna lose him but I dont want him to stay with me by pity.

Do you think there's any chance of us getting back together

Posted Sep 14, 2026, 8:05 PM UTC

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