AIO: Husband refuses to leave swinging lifestyle pages

F28 married for 4 years. Husband has always wanted to swing but we went into the marriage with the understanding that if it isn’t working for either one of us, we’re out. So I’ve expressed that I am out, because he’s willing to put more time into that than our relationship. For example, instead of us going on a date night, he wants to go to swing social events. I’ll also add that over the course of the four years we’ve gone to many events and we haven’t really made great connections anyway. Tonight I finally put my foot down and I’m like I can’t keep doing this like it’s not working for me. Can you please get off the Facebook pages and can we leave the community on Facebook? He literally chose to stay on Facebook pages over our relationship because he’s like I just can’t live without being a part of these Facebook pages. Even though he doesn’t really do anything on them it’s like an Access thing. He likes to be able to have access to it for one day if he wants to do something. And I’m just like that wasn’t our agreement going into this marriage. So he was like I’ll get off the Facebook pages, but then you have to have sex with me whenever I say so and that might be multiple times a day. I just feel like getting divorced over swinging or your inability to not participate in swinging (even though it’s not like we’re active in the lifestyle anyway) is wild to me, and I’m having a hard time comprehending that our marriage is ending if I stand by this boundary.