Rude to me post sex 24F

24F I see 2 older guys and they take care of me, it's benefits dating, so the original is 45M been seeing him for 7 months and he's great. lately he asked me if I would hangout with his friend and he'll give me the same deal. I said yes for his sake, he's 48M. so far been out 4 times and last night he was rude to me. post sex he asked me if I feel bad about myself that I have to sleep with 2 married men for benefits, and a few other like kinda mean stuff basically saying I'm not smart which is why I do this. So ngi I got kinda angry and mentioned how he has to compensate me to hang out, the problem is if I don't talk to the second guy maybe my main will get upset? mayhe it was his little brain talking? Some sort of weird fantasy? This is the only time I felt disrespected what do I do? leave the second guy?