19 (M4F) virgin needs to be told how to pump a home-made fleshlight

I've made a home-made fleshlight and I need to be told how to pump into it! Tell me how you want me to use it. I'm talking about controlling my strokes rhythm and pace. you tell me when i put my cock in it and out of it and how many times etc etc

my kinks include - joi, orgasm control, verbal and physical humiliation and degradation, feet, light cbt, spit, stroke counting

limits would be- anal, bi stuff, scat, anything that causes severe harm

any dominant or mature woman who wants to use this virgin inexperienced cock can hmu ;)