I need a non sweaty easy game for multiplayer

I have several friends that are 30+ with families and we get together on cross platform/xbox. We need a good multiplayer game that doesn’t really have negative consequences if one of us ends up passing out, needing to use the bathroom, or caring for a kid etc.

we’ve played a ton of different games. Recently we’ve been playing No More Room in Hell 2 and it takes so long to complete a mission. Consequences are dire, and it’s such a slog to finish a mission. We’ve also played

stardew valley

Palworld

Black ops 2

Arc Raiders

Borderlands 3

Castle crashes (had tons of fun but it’s short)

Children of motra (tons of fun again but short)

Cult of the lamb

Day Z (absolutely miserable for our playstyle)

Dead rising

Fade to silence

Gears of war

Goat sim

Grounded

He’ll let loose (so frickin sweaty for nothing)

Hell warders

Lords of the fallen (one buddy could do it the other lost it on us)

No mans sky (too boring)

Outward (slow and difficult for one of us/ not rewarding)

Raft (fucking gem 10/10)

Rv there yet (got too sweaty)

Shotgun farmers (mundane)

Sir whoopass (turned into a glitch nightmare)

Stranded deep (deep water too scary but I can play raft, also super tough for me and another)

State of decay (10/10 probably should play again)

Animal royal (hate royals now)

Vampire survivors (great game but one of us likes Diablo 4 way more)

Constrain (repetitive)

Welcome to paradise (lost interest)

Sorry for a long list, pick and choose, don’t worry too much I’ll skim through suggestions. I have one friend into rpgs, mtg type games, and general fantasy stuff. He’s a lot like me. I’m pretty open. On the other hand, I have a friend who hates anything with a challenge, needs objectives spoonfed to him, and quits once he’s bored (loved stardew valley though).

I understand I’m narrowing things down immensely, but we’re having a hard time enjoying a game altogether where the main focus is us talking to each other and slowly building a world together as buddies. A rewarding and fun, yet simple time together. Lastly, no, Minecraft/terraria is out. The creation menu is too hard for one friend to figure out (yes we’re old).