31 F4F looking for a relationship

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Is this the first F4F post 💀 lol

Hey I posted to JodiMilan sub, but it got deleted so I just wanted to see what happens here.

On to the post

Respecting nature, the underprivileged and children is important to me, you can keep your distance, but disrespect or abuse is a big NO. Very physically affectionate person, slightly dominant in bed ( I want a love connection, but I want to point out my needs as an intimate connection is important to me). You can go to sleep angry, but I’m holding you through the night. NO EXCEPTIONS.

I’m a bit intense, randomly goofy, and also get the zoomies. I can be both feminine and masculine, but lean towards masculine a lot more naturally. I believe in living simply, while prioritizing nice things, and experiences. Meaning at this time in my life I prioritize less rent, but I buy and have bought things like dishwasher, dryer, nice sheets, A/C, hired a maid. I will not look at my electricity meter when it comes to matters of comfort. (I just want you to know how I am regarding spending beforehand so there’s no clashes) I prioritize health and energy too at the moment meaning wifi, mobile electronics are switched off at night, sleep and diet at home are priorities.

I have undiagnosed add/adhd so I’m working on systems to alleviate that, if there’s any issues it’s likely to arise from that 😂 I like to spoil my woman so at some point within the next year or two I’d want her home or working on her own passion project instead of working. I need space, but crave your presence so please don’t be alarmed when I go sit in my room to draw or something or take a drive to a cafe early morning. I like to explore nice places and test them out before bringing you.

I hate cheaters and cheating so if you have an inkling of unfaithfulness in you I will not tolerate it. I want kids through ivf or surrogacy in the future, not something I’m working on now, but a partner who prioritizes their health or is looking to do so soon is important. I don’t like extremely skinny women, think Madhuri in the 90s lololol\* \*chefs kiss.

Looking for someone fiery, funny, a bit more responsible than me and intensely nurturing so I can worship and give 24/7 massages to. Within the community I am in currently I am not out(just to keep living in peace), but we’re good everywhere else outside the society I am living in. Age wise you can be older, no cap on that but minimum age is 25. Preferably no kids.

I watch 90s movies and music a lot to keep my vibes up. I believe in a happy home you must consume at least 80-90% happy media and entertainment as well lol

I thought I’d talk to people here see what the vibe is, I’m ready to start looking for someone to love.

edit: i will verify myself later on, if need be. And just fyi I’m about 5’8 in height

Posted Sep 17, 2026, 3:34 AM UTC

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