Enjoin good qnd forbid evil

Honestly this get a bit senstive for other me included .

But basicay i dont get the idea , that i am somehow responsible for other i get it if they needed gudiance and all but what i don' t get is why i can' t just respect that decision between him and god

Honestly , i am not even in position to preach anything to begin but i an just a bit afraid of beig judgemental like telling women to cover or man to cover( i dont even belive in traditiona dress code to begin with )or tell people to fast or pray or telling them to stop drink alchool or having sex .

Or such like i get it i view these acts as bad but why am i religiously required to be judgemental.