(29f) got cheated by husband (31m ) need suggestion

It's been a year since I found out that my husband has been cheating after giving birth to my child with multiple women, there was a big fight, my parents and his parents were involved.

He begged for forgiveness and told he would repair, i accepted and we are finding ways to bring back our old love life, what and all I should do to give him a chance, and also I would like to rebuild myself independent, making new hobbies rather than depending completely on him.

How to make time for myself and be happy, stress free rather than being an investigating officer, checking on him all the time, I know he is also hesitating to build intimacy, I don know what he is scared of, I want everything to work for good.