Started off rough…..ended up…romantic?

This has happened to me twice now, each with different guys. We started communicating about how rough they wanted to give it. One wanted to blow off steam and the other wanted to “beat that pussy up.” 🤣. Rough sex isn’t really my go to, I usually like passion and connection, but both times I was kind of horny and they were hot so I thought I’d let them get off inside me however they wanted.

Both times they made comments about how I was cuter/handsome in person and started off a bit on the rough side; kissing, a lot of aggressive grabbing, kind of controlling my body. I don’t recall with the first guy because I wasn’t noticing a pattern, but with the second guy he grabbed my throat to kinda choke me a little and then just stopped. I looked at him and his face looked less aggressive and he kissed me passionately and we ended up just making what I would call love. The other guy it happened sort of in the middle of him fucking me.

They both mentioned several times how soft I was and how good I felt.

Has anyone ever had this happen? Like the vibe of the hook up change in the middle? Not like in a bad way, although that’s happened to me before too.

Tops? Bottoms? Anyone? lol.