Married, ENM & Considering the Bowl — Where Do I Fit?

Okay I've been lurking and researching and I think I need advice from people who actually know this world 👀

I'm married, late 20s and my husband is fully aware/supportive of me exploring a sugar relationship. We're ENM and open minded, so there isn't a secret husband situation happening in the background.

I'm curious about a few things:

- Do SDs generally see being married as a positive, negative or just neutral?

- For those who prefer married SBs, what is it about that dynamic that appeals to you?

- Is there much crossover between sugaring and the hotwife world? We're comfortable with that dynamic but I don't know whether it's something worth mentioning in a profile or if it would attract the wrong kind of attention.

- Where are people actually finding legitimate arrangements these days? Secret Benefits? SugarDaddyMeet? Somewhere else?

- Since personals aren't allowed here, are there any reputable communities/sites where people can actually post what they're looking for and meet potential SDs/SBs?

- Any advice you'd give a married woman who's brand new to this before making a profile?

I'm not looking to hide my marriage or pretend I'm single. I'd rather be completely upfront and find someone who actually likes the dynamic.

Mostly trying to figure out where/if I fit in this world and how people are actually meeting each other now. Appreciate any wisdom from both SDs and SBs!