45 [M4F] #Maryland #DC - Looking for a long term affair

Hello, 45 year old married dad here looking for a long-term affair. Ultimately what I'd love to find is someone in a similar situation, where the marriages we're in are neglectful or unfulfilling but we're both unable to leave them. I'd like to find someone who isn't afraid of developing feelings, who is there for me and I'd be there for them; emotionally and physically. I love to chat throughout the day, time and family permitting of course! We all have lives, and that will come first.

I'm 5'11" and 170lbs, not super fit but not overweight either. I have dark brown hair and eyes and have been told I'm attractive. That's pretty subjective though, so I'm open to trading images (and verification) early to make sure attraction is there. Also willing to share a clean test result should we hit it off. In that regard, I'd like find someone who actually wants to meet, not just chat endlessly before you ultimately ghost. I get it though, this is a scary place. You don't know me, so if there's anything I can do to put your mind at ease, please let me know. I'm also plenty willing to travel if we're somewhat far apart.

What do I do? Well I'm a video game designer by trade, though I've been the victim of corporate layoffs recently. So in the meantime I'm teaching college and volunteering with a local Fire Department as an EMT. Hobby wise I also volunteer with a costuming club that does a lot of charity events and visits for sick kids at hospitals. My own kid was in the hospital for a while once and I remember how amazing it was to get visits from characters and pets, so it's very rewarding to do.

This is getting a bit long, so if you have any questions, please ask. I'd love to hear from you and I hope you're having a great day.