Family and Office Behaviour

How important is to have a strong family to exhibit appropriate behaviors at office. Lack of a family bond can lead to destructive behaviors at office.

We have an HR Manager who is very angry and arrogant all the time. She practices extreme politics and it is her habit to stab every employee from behind.

While people go to HR for addressing their grievances, here any attempt for such redressal used to last only in harassment.

When enquired why she is behaving so rude and toxic way, we found she doesn't have any close family members. No dears and nears. She was never married and no kids to love. Lost her parents to covid. Lost her sister and her husband in covid.

She is also taking bunch of pills in the morning and afternoon. For diabetes, cholesterol, blood pressure and depression.

It appears that she doesn't like others having good family life. She is particularly rude and angry in her approach to people leading happy and peaceful family life. But shows her sympathy to those who are having dysfunctional family life.

This person is a real evil. She has already destroyed so many people's career. She is not an HR - but an anti HR. Not a human but a devil. The entire orgnaisation is becoming toxic just because of this person.

She is politically savvy. That is the only ability she has. She influences many local leaders and those in US. She turns them against the person she has grudges.

Need advice how to deal with her as many people in the 400 plus organization is getting negatively impacted by her.