How can I build relationships when people see me as an outsider and also guys who are attracted to me end up hating me and wanting to humble me?

Its really something I never understood, when I was young I was always in fights since I was hot tempered but at 11 I went into new country spoke English there and it went well I even got myself a bf at 12 I looked 16 and he was 18 but in 2 weeks I ended it since I am Muslim he was Christian and I thought he will want more physically and I was a kid never understood a thing. At 12 till 20 I went to Holland and there I was bullied in every class and job and people just saw me as an alien unimportant and yet also subject to gossip about and eliminate or compete against.

And then I even had guys like me 4 of them at 15 and 2 at 16 yet never did they try to befriend me even just used me for attention. And them at 20 till 24 I went to Austria, 24 I met guys in my evening school one even my age and very attractive but he was insecure but brave and protective just even he while being Muslim and matching me well he didn't want to approach me alone. He simply used me as a tool to brag maybe? He didn't approach me, btw I am a flirt I can really flirt well when I like a guy.

And another guy liked me 20 and he was also extremely handsome but he ends up bullying me, stalking me, had a gf, dumped her 4x for me and chased me in 10 months time period. And other guys yet still 0 contacts.

So what do I do? I am now 25.5 and basically still have guys hit on me, its just either I am introverted and I don't want to go one with them since they are non muslims or they straight up are predatory towards me and don't want to even see me as human and want to devalue me in front of others.

What do I do? I think in my case I should be careful to be nice or even show interest to people quickly since I think those humans see me as different, or low status/class somehow. So I should keep my power always?

TL;DR I cant make friends or even bf, since wherever I go to certain social space like school or at work, people are ostracizing me and somehow get deeply offended by my introverted nature. They think I am Stück up and try to humble me by using my race and my immigrant status against me they remind me. Also many guys like me but they even end up just gossiping about me, staring never even try their best to date me or ask me out. So how do I find a human when all of them are selfish and aggressive about their self interest?