Marriage - experiences and advice

Is anyone here married to a muslim guy or girl. What are your experiences? How religious is you spouse?

Struggling to imagine my future and plan my life, will eventually have to give in to the pressures...I'm lucky in that I wont be forced to do so however, I cant keep stalling this forever. Muslims are obsessed with marriage, desi muslims twice as much. Anyone been in a similar situation?

I am past the avg age and i know it deeply pains my parents that I am not married or trying to get married. I live a pretty simple clean life and think I can make it work with a cultural muslim guy but idk if that will be enough or still eat at me

pls no advice like cut off parents etc