Saw some girls saying "guys only pay bills while women suffer" so had to say this:-

Basically all of my partners till now, whenever we would discuss about future, they would say "I want 2 kids" etc etc.

And I would say "nope I only want one or maybe none or adoption, I can't see u go through all that again and again"

"Umm but I want 2, siblings are okay"

"In that case u must get twins..I don't want u to get pregnant again as it takes a toll...I have seen my aunties during pregnancies and it's bad"

And many of my guy friends supported this ..

So yeah, many of us don't reduce women to child laying organisms...just saying.