PSA: Beware of this man on PHR4R / SinglePH

just wanna share a warning about this guy who recently posted on r/phr4r and r/SinglePH using 2 different handles. when we first met, i was super clear that i only wanted an ons or fubu setup. my guard was up but he love bombed me like crazy saying he wanted a serious relationship. he would send super long sweet messages and spend on me just to prove his "sincerity." i fell for it and gave him a chance.

we stayed together for more than a year, but i just want to give a psa to other girls that he is talking to multiple girls at the same time for sex. he will definitely deny this but trust me. also he uses a lot of humor in his posts to get attention, and he always describes himself as a "3/10 looks" to sound humble or get pity. dont fall for it. this is just a PSA to let y'all know that this boy claiming that he's looking for a serious relationship is literally him talking to multiple girls just to get pussy.

marami siyang red flags na tinago ko pa sa friends ko before kasi natatakot ako majudge siya. one time nung nag do-do kami, nasasaktan ako kaya tumigil siya pero he pleaded to continue kasi kink daw niya yung CNC. siya pa nagalit nung tinulak ko raw siya kasi nasasaktan talaga ako, pero binaligtad niya na his feeling were hurt daw dahil tinulak ko siya and he even wanted to break up with me back then. he also likes watching and favoriting girls dancing and wearing revealing clothes on tiktok and facebook. and his reason? para raw pag nakita niya ulit ia-unfollow niya raw lol. pag cinonfront mo siya dito, siya pa magagalit tas sasabihin ka ng "tigilan mo nga ako sa micro-cheating micro-cheating na yan" kahit umiyak ka pa sa harap niya.

dagdag ko na rin na he has a daughter that prolly doesn't even know he exists. he claims na tinatry niya panindigan pero his mom says otherwise. never siya nagkaambag sa anak niya kahit nung nagkasakit. ang ambag na lang niya ngayon is prolly adding her daughter sa HMO kasi hindi raw siya tanggap ng lolo't lola and pinagtawanan daw yung 1k plus na sustento niya, kaya he plans to just explain everything to the kid pag matanda na siya instead of actually standing up as her father now.

sa pera naman, his idea of budgeting is literally using a credit card/loan to pay off another loan. nung try ko tumulong ayaw niya gawin my way kaya nagshut down na lang ako because of my trauma. he even convinced me to loan sa Savii before kasi associated sa old work ko. i said no at first kasi ayaw ko na ng utang, pero he promised na babayaran naman namin. i eventually agreed kasi gagamitin ko ko to buy AC ng family ko as he suggested pero ginamit niya rin yung loan to buy a Samsung phone for himself. ngayon baon na ako sa utang kasi sabi niya okay lang daw na hindi na bayaran?? tapos binudol niya pa ako gamitin gcredit ko to buy a ps5 kasi babayaran din daw hanggang sa hindi na nangyari. so yeah, see how much i struggled with this man hahahaha.

my chat is open if you want more details or if you're currently talking to this guy. i have a lot of info and receipts that will definitely change your mind about having a serious relationship with him. he doesn't deserve one.