Small loser ytboi looking for a brat to ruin his life

Hi! I am a loser in my 20s who is new to findom (not to femdom tho), I'd like a brat to introduce me to this world and take my findom virginity. Would it be better to have a fellow newbie as a first domme? or an experienced one?

my kinks are feet joi mindfucking bullying blackmail ballbursting

limits are sadism and watersports