On basically bed rest, I am not used to being inactive, yap with me?

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Hey friends! I have been ordered by the doc post-ER visit to stop my usually very busy life for at least a week to avoid the hospital. (But if we become best friends I swear I’m good at staying in touch beyond that).

I’m crawling out of my skin with boredom; usually in a week I:

volunteer with a couple of organizations (queer shit, NPN, community gardens), teach classes (homesteading/self-sufficiency/foraging), do lots of work on my homestead property, run D&D sessions, do a few shifts at a local herbalism shop, teach some ESL online, take care of my 200 animals, maybe do one of my weirder gigs (like consulting for a law firm as a BDSM “expert” for DA cases, or make a new round of macrame projects to sell at local shops), try to get some reading in (primarily nonfiction but I like fantasy/sci-fi/romcom, too) and hang with friends.

So if any of those interests sound like something we’d connect on, shoot me a DM and let’s yap! I’m 32nb, very rural Southeastern US, don’t care where you’re from 💜

Happy to even just have my brain picked if you’ve ever wanted to get into any of the above and could use some advice, I am a teacher of a lot and enjoy being helpful (and you’d make me feel like I didn’t waste a week haha).

Posted Sep 23, 2026, 9:28 PM UTC

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