My Ex lied about SA to cover up her cheating.

So my girlfriend (F20) and I (M23) just broke up for the second time. And since this break up I’ve uncovered some things that make me believe she lied about being raped/sexually assaulted(she kept going back and forth between the two) by a co-worker. Shes an EMT and works at a station.

For some context the first time we broke up. I had been suspicious for a couple weeks that she was deleting messages and hiding things between the both of them. Well I found some messages in her phone between her and another male co-worker(30s).

He was flirting with her and sending sexually suggestive tik toks. And there was a previous night where she went to go hangout with some “girls from work.” And went to go hangout with him instead, they drove around for a couple hours and then she took him home. (We have each other’s location).

Well I found these messages and she starts crying and begging me not to leave so I listen and hear her out and she claims that the guy had raped her. He climbed into her bed one night while at work and took advantage of her and she just didn’t know how to stop it. She claimed she was afraid I’d leave if she told me.

There was a lot of things in her story that didn’t add up. I broke up with her, not only for that but we had been arguing a lot and she grew very distant toward me. But stayed in contact. We eventually decided to try and work things out again. We had long talks about everything and I decided to try and trust her again and it was going okay at first.

Well fast forward to now we’re dating again and things start degrading, we start arguing again, she’s a little more distant again, and we get into a HUGE multi day argument where she basically screams and hung up on me and ignores me for multiple days.(You can read my only other posts I have if you want the full context of this).

So after this second time I decide to break up again, she yells and screams at me over the phone and we end things. Then about a day later she reaches out over text and ends things on better times wishing me the best and I do the same for her.

Well a few days later now I’m cleaning things up and I still have our Life360. I go to check it and curiosity kills me and the cat. I still have her location which surprised me. I look and she’s at that co workers house hanging out. It’s late at night probably 9 or 10pm.

I wanna make sure I’m not crazy cause to me that seems like it just makes it blatantly obvious she was lying about him raping her from start.

I thought about messaging and confronting her about it but, that’s obviously a bad idea. So I guess I’ll just leave it and block her. Anyway this really sucks and just wanted to put it out there.