25M #India | Looking for someone to talk to, not a motivation coach
I'm a 25M and a UPSC aspirant. Preparing for something like this can get pretty isolating, and sometimes you don't need another person telling you to study harder, wake up at 5 AM or stay motivated.
Sometimes you just want someone who gets it.
I'm looking for a girl who I can talk to openly—someone who can listen when I've had a terrible day, understand the frustration and uncertainty that comes with pursuing a long-term goal, and with whom I can also forget about studies and talk about completely random things.
Your goal doesn't have to be UPSC or even academics. You could be working, studying something completely different, preparing for another exam, building something, or figuring life out.
I'm not looking for a productivity partner or accountability arrangement. Just genuine conversation, mutual understanding and someone who's comfortable being there on both good and bad days.
I can offer the same in return. I'm a pretty good listener and genuinely enjoy getting to know people beyond surface-level conversations.
Maybe we start with a conversation and see where it goes. 🙂
Posted Sep 25, 2026, 5:12 PM UTC