38 [M4F] #NYC Bored Enough to Post, Curious Enough to See What Happens

I’m 38, married, Latino, a dad, tattooed, pierced, introverted, and nerdier than I probably look. I’m usually happiest at home with music on, something to read, a game to play, or some completely unnecessary rabbit hole occupying my brain. I cook, draw, occasionally paint, follow NY sports, and maintain a complicated relationship with the gym and carbohydrates.

I’m not looking for love or to change anyone’s situation. I’d just like a friend with some fun benefits attached.

Mostly, I want someone I actually enjoy hearing from. Tell me the ridiculous thing your coworker did. Send me whatever you’re listening to. Let conversations get weird, personal, flirty, inappropriate, or completely pointless depending on the hour. Then go live your life. We don’t need to spend all day proving we’re interested in each other.

Attraction absolutely matters. So I’m open to sharing pics early on. I’m handsome with a masculine dad bod (wide shoulders, big chest, big arms, somewhat of a stomach). I usually am attracted to thick women. Latinas preferred but not a deal breaker.

Maybe we cure each other’s boredom.

Maybe we make it considerably worse.