45 bear looking for younger < 25

USA.WA

Hey there. I’m a 45-year-old tech professional working from home, and honestly, it gets a little quiet sometimes. I'd love to find a younger guy (25 or under) to chat with consistently.

I’m a bearded bear/big guy, and I really enjoy the dynamic of being with someone much younger and more fit/skinnier. I have a strong preference for guys with at least a little bit of masculine energy (not looking for femboys).

I'm definitely down for some heat and sexual chat, but I’m much more interested in building an actual connection/intimacy first. I like to know who I'm talking to. In bed, I'm versatile but lean towards bottoming depending on the chemistry.

I am US-based. While I'd love someone close by, I'm happy to chat with anyone across the pond or elsewhere if we vibe. Just a heads up: I do like to exchange face pics within the first few chats.

Shoot me a message if you think we might vibe.

Posted Sep 25, 2026, 5:13 PM UTC

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