My husband cheated and then suggested a threesome with his sidechick.

My husband (M34) cheated and he told this to me himself. Me and my husband had been married for two years, two years where i loved him endlessly but in the last few months the relationship had been drifting away. we will call him Aaron. He was always busy with something, i am hot tempered so fights weren't so uncommon but the last few weeks felt different, he wouldn't tal more than necessary, no dates, no intimacy. I blamed work for it until a evening he told me find him in the parking lot outside the restaurant i liked so much, my delusional self thought it was a surprise date.

I spotted his car among the others and walked to it, sliding inside the passenger seat. We weren't alone. A woman, maybe in her mid twenties was sitting in the back seat , we'll call her Mary. She was very pretty, i had to admit that, but what caught my attention was her slightly disheveled clothes and her smuggled lipstick. I looked at the stranger than at my husband. You can't imagine what i was feeling when he took my hands in his and said that he was sorry. That he should had been honest from the start, to hear him out, that he didn't want to things to end yet. I was still processing things, too shocked to talk, eyes drifting from him to the stranger in the backseat. Still, he didn't say what he had done plainly. But before i could react, question him, the woman interjected herself. I wont repeat the vile words she said, all you need to know that she offered to do a polygamy. A fresh start. Saying it could fix our marriage and it wasn't even big deal.

I stared at the girl. Then at the man before me who was supposed to be my husband. Usually in a scenario like this i would already be crying but the absurdity of their words made me simply froze. I didn't know what was worse, my husband cheating me or having the chick he cheated with me on asking to do a throuple as if she didn't ruin my whole relationship with my husband.

I think at a certain point i started screaming because my husband asked Mary to step out of the car so he could speak with me privately. I didn't even look at the woman go. My eyes were fixed on Aaron, tears --hot from anger, pain and humiliation -- rolled down my cheeks as i said the very next words "Just cheating wasn't enough was it? You bought the woman before me, let ask her if i want to fucking join you as if the vows we said were just words. and even have the gale to say " That's an interesting idea"? Are you torturing me? did i do something to make you angry and this is your way of punishing me?"

I couldn't understand. Not what was happening, not even his next words. Everything felt hallow aside of the pain. He told me that the marriage started to feel empty, but that he still loved me. That's way he thought about polygamy, that way we could restore ourselves, bring back the spark and find more things about us. At that point there wasn't even space for anger. My throat was sore that i couldn't even utter a word without feeling a gut lechering pain. He admit it. He admit it so easily. I didn't want to talk to him, didn't want to breath his same air. I pushed the car door open, tears falling down like a water fall, lungs breathing pure fire.

After that everything was a blur. I remember him calling for me, trying to "reason" as if the points he just make were absolutely valid. I blocked him everywhere, hadn't been at home because i knew he had been there. Maybe even with Mary. All this happened two days ago and physically got sick. I'm disgusted. By him and people in general. I dont know what to do.