I never been to a bar/club & I’m turning 22 in 3 months 🥲

Well first of all the party really starts when my household’s curfew starts 😹 8-10pm. I think it’d be more peaceful going out if I lived alone or with roomates but 1. I’m broke w a shopping addiction (I’m getting better at not spending it tho I think) 2. I refuse to get roomates like Hell no, I’m so messy and irresponsible and people never really like me, Valid but yeah. I’ve barely been looking into that stuff and it’s like how do people even have time for that?? like if I request off a time for my boss, he’s probably going to forget anyways 😭 so like losing $ on a stupid ticket idk. I don’t drink tbh but seems like it’s the only way mfs my age socialize ?? And I don’t play video games (another big one from what I hear) but I want to meet ppl😩