38 [F4R] - Looking for a close connection and to care about someone again
What I'm looking for is usually considered closer than a typical friendship. It's difficult to constantly be told I'm too much or that I'm getting overly attached to someone.
I want someone to really care about and who cares about me. We talk every day and make each other's lives better, make each other feel heard and understood in our own little virtual universe.
I have serious health issues and don't have many ways for connection anymore. Things are complicated with my spouse and the situation can't change. I have limitations and things that make me different.
I'm an empathetic, creative, and thoughtful person who will send you memes and make you playlists. Swap photos from our days. I love deep conversations and also just chatting about whatever and hearing about your life. I'm usually direct about my feelings, people either love or hate that.
I am only looking for SFW and primarily text chat so please be aware and that won't change. But if you're looking for a close long-term emotional connection and you're comfortable with boundaries and respectful pacing feel free to message me.
Looking for people who are communicative, kind, non-pressuring, and able to show interest and help keep conversations going. I don't want to always feel like I'm just being squeezed in between things. I know we all have lives but make sure you have time to actually talk. Also please be LGBTQIA+ friendly.
A few random facts: I'm a writer, love music, gaming, and TV.
Thanks for reading and *notabot. Won't respond to any messages that are clearly AI or have no intro.
Posted Sep 25, 2026, 5:14 PM UTC