Europe preferred • 💻 Online for now

🧠 24M | INFJ-T 1w2 | Leo Sun • Taurus Moon • Sagittarius Rising

🎨 Interests: Anime • Psychology • MBTI/Personality • Astrology • Self-discovery • Art • League of Legends • Wuthering Waves

Hey! I'm an INFJ, very much an introvert, and probably someone who experiences emotions a little more deeply than I sometimes know what to do with. I'm the kind of person who gets attached to people through conversations, understanding each other, sharing little parts of our lives and slowly becoming comfortable enough to show each other sides that we don't show everyone.
And honestly, that's what I'm looking for here.

I'm looking for a woman I can genuinely fall in love with and feel emotionally close to, rather than simply finding someone to casually date. I want that feeling of having my person to talk to every day, someone I look forward to hearing from, someone I can be affectionate and a little clingy with, and someone who makes me feel loved and wanted in return. ♡

I'm not really looking for a relationship that immediately comes with a plan for meeting IRL, moving somewhere, marriage, or figuring out our entire future together. Right now, I mostly want the emotional side of a relationship. I want to get to know someone deeply, fall for each other naturally, have that feeling of being in a relationship even if we're spending our time together online, and just enjoy having someone special in my life.

I'm still finishing my Master's and don't have a job yet, so I don't want to put unnecessary pressure on myself by immediately worrying about travel, distance or meeting in person. Maybe much further down the line, if we become genuinely close and life allows it, meeting could be something we consider. But that's not something I expect or need right now. I'd rather focus on the person than on planning a future that neither of us can predict yet.

🫶 What I'm looking for

I'm an introvert and definitely prefer one-on-one connections over huge social circles. I'm also a big feeler, so empathy, emotional intelligence, openness and good communication mean a lot to me.

I'm pretty affectionate, talkative and admittedly a little clingy when I really like someone. I love frequent messages, checking in on each other, sharing random thoughts, talking about our day, sending each other stupid things we found online and just naturally becoming part of each other's everyday lives.

I don't need someone who agrees with me about everything. Actually, I really enjoy hearing a different perspective and understanding why someone thinks or feels differently. I'm very curious about people in general, so I love asking questions and going down those little rabbit holes about personality, emotions, experiences and the way someone's mind works.

At the same time, I'm not looking for someone who turns every disagreement into a debate about who is objectively right. Misunderstandings happen. I'd much rather talk things through calmly, understand where we're both coming from and move forward without trying to “win” the conversation.

Empathy > winning arguments. 🫶

I also tend to click particularly well with xNFP types, especially ENFPs and INFPs. I like people who are expressive, emotionally open, curious and willing to talk about basically everything. Of course, I'm not going to reject someone because of four letters. Personality type is interesting to me, but how we actually connect matters much more.

🎨 A little about me

I tend to get pretty invested in the things I enjoy. Psychology, MBTI/personality, astrology and self-discovery are probably the biggest ones. I can spend way too much time thinking about why people behave the way they do, what shapes someone's personality and why two people can experience the exact same situation completely differently.

I'm also a gamer and I've been playing League of Legends for over 10 years, so at this point it's basically been part of my life. I've also been playing Wuthering Waves lately when I want something a little more relaxed.

Art is another big part of me. I've been a traditional artist as a kid, mostly drawing by hand, and only started getting into digital art about 1–2 months ago. I'm still learning and figuring things out, but I've been having a lot of fun with it. I'd love to have someone I can share drawings with, show random things I've made to, or just talk about art with.

🎧 Voice calls are also really important to me. I enjoy texting, especially when the conversation is meaningful, but hearing someone's voice makes me feel much more connected to them. I'd love to eventually spend hours in calls together, whether we're having a deep conversation at 2 AM, laughing about something stupid or literally doing our own things while talking.

💗 The kind of connection I'm hoping for

I'm not looking for ten different conversations or casually talking to a bunch of people at the same time. I'd rather find one woman I genuinely click with and put my attention into getting to know her.

I want something that feels mutual. If we're both interested in each other, I want us to actually make time for each other. We can obviously have our own lives, responsibilities and days where we're busy. I'm not expecting someone to be available 24/7. I just want to feel that we're both genuinely interested in keeping the connection alive.

I want the kind of relationship where we can tell each other about our day, randomly message each other because something reminded us of the other person, stay up talking about things that somehow started with a completely stupid topic, be affectionate without feeling embarrassed about it, and eventually become that person each other naturally goes to when something happens.

Basically, I want to feel loved, and I want to give that same feeling to someone else.

I'm mainly looking for someone around 20–27, preferably from Europe. I'd also love someone who's naturally talkative, emotionally expressive, affectionate, curious and maybe a little clingy herself.

I'm not expecting us to instantly fall in love just because we both happen to be interested in MBTI. I'd rather start talking, discover each other naturally and see what happens. If we click, I'd love to let that connection become something deeper without rushing it into a predefined future.

I've probably still left a hundred things unsaid here. That's kind of inevitable with these posts. I'd much rather discover those things by actually talking to someone than trying to fit my entire personality into a Reddit post.

If this sounds like the kind of connection you're looking for too, tell me a little about yourself, your MBTI if you know it, what you're interested in and what kind of relationship you're hoping to find. I'd genuinely love to get to know you. ♡

P.S. I've been a little more cautious with people lately because I've been hurt by losing connections that meant a lot to me. So I might take a little time before completely opening up. It's not because I'm uninterested. I just care a lot about who I let close to me. Once I feel safe and comfortable with someone, though, I tend to be very present and genuinely invested.