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Super-Emu6631

Why would he be intimate and then block me?

I really like this dude. We met on Hinge of all places. I wasn't texting him back because he was texting me from an out of state number. Then he started texting me from a local number. Constantly calling and hitting me up until I responded. Claim he want a long-term relationship and if I called him out on it he got mad.

So finally I was like he's an attractive dude and we started talking. I'm white and he's black but I'm more attracted to black men than I am white men. We made plans Sunday to go get dinner and I kept calling his phone and he didn't follow through. He claims he was sleeping. But he was wanting me to come over and cuddle the day prior. I said I'm not comfortable enough until I know you a little better.

We video chat and it was always in the evening. He was always "sleeping". Then I was comfortable enough and was going to go to his house but he said nah I'll come to yours. You can't come to my house tonight because I'm busy. This was Tuesday. Then he said let's video chat and then 5 minutes later it was no let's just text I'm in the dark.

So Wednesday he text me and ask me if he could come over. I said yes I figured we were just going to hang out and then I tell him to leave about 2:00 in the morning cuz I have work the next day. Instead of looking around and getting to know my animals he didn't even pay attention to my dog or care. He just instantly wanted to go in the bedroom. We cuddled and then he kept saying let me put it in your p****. I said I'm on my period but he kept begging so I gave in. I said you know some guys uses me and I don't know if it's my personality or I'm ugly or what. Oh Baby you're beautiful. Your personality is great. So I'm stupid and I trusted him. He'll call me the next day and blah blah blah. Well I tried to call him at our regular time and it goes straight to voicemail. Sometimes his phone is on do not disturb. So I took a friend's phone and it rang through so I know I'm blocked. I check social media and I'm blocked on there too. I literally let this guy in my house and thought he was genuine. I guess I'm naive.

I really think this guy has another girlfriend or something and I'm like the side chick.

Posted Sep 25, 2026, 5:19 PM UTC

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