43 [M4F] #uk / online - looking for that unlikely connection

I have a generally great life, but I miss the adventure of getting to know someone new. Maybe its the thrill of doing something I know I shouldn't be. Maybe its that rush of growing attraction to someone who actually gets you.

I'm hoping to find the connection first. Conversation that is fun, witty, effortless and quickly becomes flirty without shying away from the deep stuff. I am not looking for anything quick and transactional. Wholesome vibes that turn into something more when the timing is right.

I'm married, I have kids and a fairly busy life. But I also have time for the right person, even if my days can go from quiet to frantic in a moment. I am active, motivated and engaged. Most comfortable outdoors or around a pub table with good friends and good food. I enjoy keeping fit and active, look passably good in both my jeans and t-shirt and on the beach. I like to think that I'm emotionally intelligent and reasonably self-aware although entirely capable of saying the wrong thing at the exact wrong moment.

You're in your thirties or forties, chatty, engaging, curious and enthusiastic. Enjoy talking about the mundane details of your day as well as the deep, philosophical stuff. You are active, take care of yourself and like the way you look for the most part without being precious about it. You enjoy an adventure and the escape this offers.

I have some experience in this world but am some way off offering loyalty cards. I would ideally like to find someone in a similar position. If you are fairly new, or still have a bit of hope that it can feel easy and meaningful rather than transactional, that is very much my speed.

Being grounded, considerate and discreet is assumed on both sides. We are mature enough to admit when the chemistry isn't there and both appreciate the grace of a friendly bow out.

Send me a chat, tell me if this is you and lets see if we spark!