Have any SBs tried freestyling on "The League"?
Hello,
I've been experimenting on the League, a so called "exclusive" dating app originally built for Ivy League graduates but since it was bought by Match it seems like anyone can just join and the algorithm accepts.
My experience was that it told me my profile would have to be approved by other members, but I was accepted literally within 30 seconds. I have also never been asked to review a profile.
I'm using it more to find successful men to date, with the full expectation that they will pay for everything, and that they would probably be willing to spoil me. I guess you would call it "gold digging" as opposed to sugaring. My ultimate goal, or "exit strategy" is to marry a successful, generous man who I love. In the meantime I'm in the bowl for lifestyle elevation
If it helps to know, I'm 32, in decent shape, pretty, have an MBA, and have a decent job already (albeit in government which is stable but not luxurious). I'm also on Seeking and Secret Benefits and have had mixed luck with that.
I'm wondering if anyone has had any luck converting a match from the League?
Thanks!
Posted Sep 25, 2026, 10:50 PM UTC