38 [M4F] Central Texas/Austin area – tall, queer, a little nerdy, looking for genuine chemistry
Hey! I’m Josi, 38, in the Bastrop/Austin area. I’m 6'6", queer/genderfluid, masc-leaning most of the time, and primarily interested in women, though I’m also attracted to femme energy more broadly.
I’m pretty easygoing once I get comfortable with someone—slightly awkward at first, sarcastic, affectionate, and much better at conversation when we can actually be ourselves instead of doing the whole dating-interview thing.
I’m into gaming, football, hiking/outdoorsy stuff, creative projects, live performances, and getting way too invested in whatever random thing has grabbed my attention that week. I also have a daughter, so being a parent is an important part of my life.
Relationship-wise, I’m solo-poly and big on honest communication. I’m not looking to rush into anything or force a particular outcome. I’d rather meet someone I genuinely click with, talk for a bit, flirt, and see whether that turns into dates, affection, something ongoing, or whatever feels natural for both of us.
I’m especially drawn to women who are warm, playful, open-minded, a little weird, and comfortable communicating what they want. Queer women are absolutely welcome, but you definitely don’t have to be queer yourself.
I don’t drive, so being reasonably close to the Austin/Bastrop area—or being comfortable figuring out transportation—is helpful.
If any of that sounds like your kind of person, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and give me something better to work with than just “hey.” 😅
Posted Sep 25, 2026, 10:53 PM UTC