39 (m4f) - some witty title that makes you think you want to click here

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We all know why we are here, something is missing in our marriage. Whether it’s a dead bedroom, not getting emotional intimacy or just growing apart from your spouse. It sucks but such is life. We also are trying to meet people online while dodging the bots, OF sellers and people just trying to blackmail you for being here. *notabot

I am looking for something long term. I don’t want to be sending a couple of messages and then never hear from you again. I want to be able to tell you about my victories, my worries and the truly mundane parts of life. I want to find that person that makes me smile when I see their name pop up. I do want to stay online for a while but could be open to meeting sometime in the future if you are close. Pictures (sfw) will come eventually when we have been talking for a while. Just like any relationship it takes a bit of time to build that trust. I also want to make sure that whoever I meet understands that sometimes life gets busy and it may take a bit to message back but believes I will respond.

A little about me: I am 39 and work in accounting. I do have kids and would prefer you did as well (not a deal breaker but it’s easier to understand each other’s schedule this way). I like most sports, like to camp even though I never seem to have time, travel, and hang out with friends. It can take a while to really get me to open up but once I do I am an open book.

If any part of this sounds like something you are interested in feel free to send me a DM. Worst case scenario we aren’t a match and part as friends. If you really want to take a chance and potentially experience something great, I look forward to talking to you.

Posted Sep 25, 2026, 10:56 PM UTC

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