How do I meet someone?

Maybe I’m making excuses, but I don’t have much free time. I work Mon-fri, then go to the gym after work, come home and prepare for the next day. I’m in trade school as well, so my weekends usually consist of the gym, studying, doing things around the house, working on my own property, and then preparing for the next week on sunday.

Maybe I’m just lazy, but I don’t really see myself finding a social hobby without having little to no time to just relax. Not only that, but a lot of hobbies (or at least the ones I’d be interested in) cost money, and I’m really trying to save for a house.

I’ve tried tinder, but all the women there that seemed to have the same interests as me, never matched with me. Also, I see some girls at the gym, but I don’t really feel comfortable trying to talk to them there?

Maybe I’m just making excuses. Maybe I’m just comfortable being kind of isolated, but I still kind of wish I could meet someone.

Posted Sep 25, 2026, 11:00 PM UTC

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