21F [F4F] #Asia#Online - Looking for a relationship with a fellow nerdy gamer like myself

Hello! I will try and just get straight to it, I am looking for something serious and long term, I am not the most social person irl and dating in my country is basically a lost cause with meeting other wlw being almost impossible and cheating being too normalized for some reason here so I largely avoid going out these days. So hopefully I can meet someone who is looking for the same thing as me here, though I have to admit I am not too familiar with this side of Reddit really 😅 Even though I am in Japan my work and sleep schedule have me awake during the nights and evenings along with lots of free time so timezone differences with NA and EU and more than manageable for me.

But yeah I am looking for a partner that I can share my hobbies/interests with and spend my free time with. Currently working on my degree but since most of my classes are online and my work schedule is pretty chill I have a lot of free time which I spend at home or the gym and because I am not the most social person I do not have much people to talk to besides a small friend group, so having someone to help fill in the constant silence besides my music would be a nice change.

As for what I am looking for in a partner? Well I am not really picky to be honest, I do very much value communication and honesty in a relationship. Hard to build any kind of relationship without either of those really. I do really love the clingy suffocating types and I do have a thing for older women honestly :p but everyone is welcome if you think we could get along honestly!

English is not my first language so I am not the greatest texter but I try my best not be dry or anything, still I much prefer to voice call if I can since I think it is just far easier to get to know someone and get a feel for each other than just over text so if you are not that into voice calls we might not be the greatest match.

Anyways about me then! I am definitely what you would call a massive nerd/dork overall I am pretty tomboyish in my hobbies/interests and also my mannerisms, I tend to swear a lot and my humour can be pretty dark so my personality might be pretty abrasive to some people but in saying that I am still a chill and relaxed person overall I promise I am easy to talk to and not intimidating or anything.

I am pretty feminine presenting looks wise, though I am not much of "girly girl" I do not have much a fashion sense nor do I really have reason to dress up much xd so you will most often catch me chilling in my pyjamas or hoodies and sweats, maybe a skirt if I am going outside

The vast majority of my free time is spent at home on my PC either playing games or messing around on Blender. So meeting someone who also plays games and enjoys them as much as I do is pretty important! I play a wide variety of games genre wise really everything thing from story based single player games, RPG's to strategy and colony builders along with race sims. Recently specifically have been playing lot's of Rimworld, Palworld, and Warframe which is also one of my most played games! (big + if you also play Warframe) I have a lot of co-op games as well like 7 Days to Die and Project Zomboid which I think could be really fun to play together as well. This is already getting pretty long so I can more into detail about that if you are curious later

Feel free to share of your favourites in your intro as well if you want! If you want to add each other on steam as well and compare libraries that would be cool.

I also love just watching people play games as well so if want to stream whatever that would also be amazing! Speaking of watching things though I would love to watch some TV Series or Anime with someone as well whether that is something new or re watching favourites. I am a sucker for true crime, historical shows, anything psychological and horror.

Besides gaming and all that, I love cooking and baking. I do actually go out and touch grass too, fitness is also very important for my work so I try to go to the gym everyday. For the past 14 or so years I have been in Judo, I live in the middle of nowhere pretty much so I love to get out in the wilderness and go hiking and rockclimbing when I have the chance to so yeah overall fairly active.

That covers most of the important bits about me think, I tried my best keep this from getting too long but still if you read that all thank you! If you are interested and thing we would potentially be a good fit for each other feel free to message me and tell me about yourself. I prefer to chat on discord as well so if we get along I can add you there.