33 [M4F] #Chicago / Online — I Want to Slowly Take More and More Control of You

I’m 33, married with my wife’s knowledge, and looking for a submissive woman who likes the idea of gradually giving someone more control over her.

Not just one night of dirty messages. I want to learn you.

What embarrasses you. What makes you needy. What you secretly want someone to tell you to do. What rules you’d love having but would never admit to asking for.

I’m affectionate and caring outside of play, but I have a very controlling side. I love obedience, ownership, tasks, service, humiliation, rules, body control, and slowly “corrupting” someone as she gets comfortable exploring dirtier parts of herself.

The part that really gets me is progression.

Maybe at first you’re shy about following a simple instruction. Months later, you’re doing things you once couldn’t even admit you fantasized about because surrendering to me has become part of our relationship.

I want someone sweet, communicative, and genuinely submissive. Someone who wants attention and affection alongside the control, and who actually enjoys talking regularly instead of disappearing after we get off.

I’m especially attracted to Black women, though I’m also very drawn to Latina and Asian women.
I’m in Chicago, but online is completely fine. If we actually develop something, I’d love for it to eventually become in-person.

If you’re already submissive, or you’re curious and secretly want someone to help bring that side out of you, message me with the thing you’d be most embarrassed to admit you want a Dom to control. ❤️