Girl Dinner is litterally the dragonball whopper meal from BK and a bubblegum soft serve dessert thing they do. 

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Hey girls ! 

So, imma cut right to the point here (partially because the whole thing i wrote out didnt meet guidelines for some reason nomatter the edit 😅 so, apologies for the gaps in the story). 

So, my guy (M24) and I (F29) have been together 2 years now. At the time (about 3 years ago) I was in an awkward position when I met him,  trying to get out of a situationship at the time with my sons dad who was scary to leave due to stuff I wont mention here. mentally and emotionally I was out of it for a long time and we were together for 6 years before I ended it. I did it so I could introduce myself to by current bf, who I was crushing on and wanted to get to know. 

Fast forward a few months, my bf and I had been talking all.day every day and couldnt deny the deep connection we had. We decided to make our relationship official but keep it private and between close friends and family- simply because of my crazy ex. 

Honestly, it has been the best relationship ive ever been in or could imagine myself in. Dude is amazing with my son and now lives with us(we got this current place together with my son and he helps out with everything here while sons dad is absent).Even his family is so nice to my kid, getting him gifts and concidering him when he comes to stay the night with me. making him dinners and the house cozy for him- just such a beautiful situation. Not to mention they are supportive of my bfs and I relationship and are really nice to me despite me being 4 years older with a young kid not normally the type of girl parents want for their son. 

My family even came to stay a night with them when they came to visit me (which never happens due to my dad working alot and my mums health stuff) so its all perfect... he' even knows how to cook/bake and helps me with housework. never yells at me or insults me/threaten me or my family like my ex did. Hes just really stepped up and is everything i need him to be without me even asking. 

Im his first gf and first anything so its all just amazing that he even wanted me and my son. Theres only one problem.... 

He isnt able to make a move on me...  

Im my bfs first in person experience. only experience he says hes had was some online jerk offs with a girl he never met in person over a summer break. And that was before he moved over here and met me during a course we did together couple years after he immigrated here.

My bf could be concidered disabled to a certain degree. Hes able to walk around and do what everyone else does but he suffers alot with pain and is currently a medical mystery for the specialists he has. He had it alot worse when he was living in the states and is doing so much better since he came here but it seems like the one thing he struggles with is being to maintain an erection or even get one at all. 

We were together for almost a year before we were able to make a successful attempt (I say attempt as it stopped before he could finish). But we were doing alot of other stuff to compensate so no complaints there.

And this isnt a deal breaker for me at all as I have a considerably low drive due to how busy I am with my son and also looking after my bf. I take on alot of responsibility to make things work and allow alot of time for him to sleep as needed cook and clean after him and soon after a new surgery, I will be helping to assist with nearly everything as he wont be able to walk for weeks afterwards.(I want to do it, its not that he cant go home to his parents). I dont really know what kind of advice im wanting I guess I just feel really unattractive right now and kind of less of a woman since I cant please my guy... and at least before he was still keen to help me out or at least give a little inspiration for me but all attempts of that has gone out the window and im left feeling like his mum/sister/best friend over his gf and its sad because I KNOW the guy loves the heck out of me just by the way he treats me and tells me how much he loves me all the time and shows me.

 I just wanna know how I can make him want me like "that" again... because at the start we were WILD and having so much fun experimenting with different things and obv enjoying it idk what went wrong...

.. ive talked to him about this alot as we have a pretty open relationship when it comes to talking about stuff and hes always been the type to wanna chat 24/7 so I do feel comfortable bringing this up it just feels like neither of us kmow how to fix this despite the communication... any ideas ? 

How can I get my bf to wanna make a move on me ?