What’s your regular and normal ?

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So all our lives are different.
We all maybe sitting in the same class and still have different levels of freedom, attention, love and care.

Like I have to forcefully go to college since my parents especially my mother wants it and everyday makes sure I go. She doesn’t move until I leave the house.
I am weak student

While toppers of my class and seniors everyone barely attend class and are club heads, student council, sports and all extracurricular so their attendance is sorted.

They keep on roaming around outside everywhere whether it’s day or night.
They go to restaurants, host parties and be roaming full night till 4-5 o’clock in the morning.
While I have never gone outside and my life is only college and home.
While some even in all years claim to never attended a full day of college
One girl I spoke to, not from my course and college claimed to have never even sat for any lectures ever and that her name was removed from attendance and another girl claiming extreme pride that she attended the college for the whole day. Which she did in 2nd year of degree college and never attended in Jr college or even in degree college. Only that one day.

While some get lots of love and gifts and that also expensive like PS5, bikes from relatives and some like me are into so bad contact that haven’t spoken to them in years. Leave alone go to their house.

Some get the best group of friends, girlfriend/ boyfriend and all.
While others just are forgotten and invisible.

While some have been to sleepovers, trips, birthdays, weddings of friend’s siblings and what not I can imagine. While I haven’t experienced anything.
While some get their parents money, support, love in everything they do right or wrong. While some even being innocent and good. Still are not given anything.

While some have boyfriend/ girlfriend and sometimes from different religions and can openly declare to the world their relationship, love and all without fear or judgment of their parents, society or anyone
While some face consequences for proposing.

I personally have never experienced anything good and my life is just college and home with mandatory yelling and cursing of parents why I am not good at anything.
I don’t go out and if I have to go for movie which is maximum that has happened. I have to beg and hear curses for next whole month. Whether they give permission or no.

I want to know and understand what your life is like ?

Posted Sep 28, 2026, 4:32 AM UTC

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