38[M4F], Online/Anywhere, Come for the banter... stay for the butterflies 🦋

I am a 38-year-old, 6'1", brown skinned man... I love staying active, Listen to music and grow what I eat.

I have grown many fruits and vegetables so far... spending time in my farm, getting my hands dirty and watching something grow from a tiny seed is my best stress buster.

Fun fact: I have successfully befriended a squirrel, she comes to my garden to eat and is very lovely... although I think she now believes the farm belongs to her. 🐿️

I am married, but it is a complicated one. I am not expecting anyone to solve my problems... just looking for a genuine connection where we both enjoy talking to each other and can be ourselves.

I am looking for something filled with care, friendship, respect, mutual effort, banter and silly jokes... but also a strong emotional bond. I would love for us to have our own happy little space... somewhere we can talk about everything and nothing, make each other smile and forget about our everyday worries for a while.

There is no age barrier and I don't have a specific body type in mind... a kind heart, an open mind and the willingness to make efforts matter far more to me.

If you are also looking for a good friendship that can naturally develop into something more... please feel free to respond.

And to make the first message a little easier...

What's something completely harmless that irrationally annoys you?

Cabinet doors left ajar? Pineapple on pizza? Sandwiches cut into rectangles instead of triangles? Or something else entirely...?