Oru Long Distance Story

One year after first breakup - ente oru Insta pagil itta storykk This girl replied and we started talking.

Oru 2 masam samsarichappo i felt like she has same vibe. From what i understood she was being trained as "wife material" by her mom. I liked her as a person and since convos were regular i gave her my own insta id and we started talking there.

We spoke about almost everything including past relationships, crushes okke and one day she told me she has a crush on me.

I have average looks and i am not into gym / fitness. So i rarely attract girls on dating apps. Since she opened about this i wanted to give it a try.

And she did match my checklist for a future partner.
Ivde vare ellam nalla rasam aarunnu. She had maturity, had a good job, was up for casual drinking etc

At this point i took her number. She was like 1.5 years older than me and i did not mind. But ee crush und paranjappo thott convos started drying up. I felt like being ignored.

So like 3 days after the "crush day" i asked her directly if she was not ok with this. She told all anganonnumilla. After 2 days she dropped a bomb.

She was married off early at 19 and divorced some 8 months after. I felt like she should have told me this first hand. Then again i thought i would have been a trauma for her and she needed a space to open up.

I decided to keep it going.

I had a different timezone and a work timing were an issue. So everyday there was only a 4hr window to talk. (She also had a job).

But i felt like she did not want to open up and talk about things. I confronted and she was like "maturity kooduthal aayond angane samsarikkan onnum pattilla"

Like when we were normally talking as two strangers i had no expectations. I did not mind when she replies or when she does not.

When some topic comes, she would try to ignore or find a reason to go offline. Will start next day with a good morning and will completely skip last nights discussions.

At this point i told her its not working for me🚶‍♂️‍➡️.

For a week i had to pull two 6 hour shifts in a day. So i hardly had much time to sleep. I ended up loosing my sleep waiting for her to call (according to her she will be around her mom and she will initiate call). I felt ghosted and everytime she would come back with a apology.

Avasanam maduthu, i said good bye.

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