30 [M4F] #Portland,OR - soft domme and gardener looking to cherish my future Morticia

Well, hey there, darling,

you can call me Ignitus. I’m a 30 year-old guy living over in Portland, and I just wanna put this out there with, you know, zero high school games in mind. I’m wanting something long-term monogamous, but I am open to being a third for a fem couple building a family. Having children is one of my goals that I really would like to accomplish, one of many goals that I would like to work on. Another big goal of mine is to one day get some land together and have a small hobby farm and just watch our children laugh, giggle, and grow up. Down the road, we could absolutely discuss the reasons why we both want kids.

Behind this post I am a man with blue eyes and long shoulder length curly hair, I’m 5”7, and 195 pounds of dad bod. And not to toot my own horn, my exes would say I’m pretty well endowed, if you were curious. Now my neighbors call me an artist because I cook, and bake. I paint, I craft, and restore thrown out items. I like to go thrifting. I prefer to bring new life to a well loved object. When I'm not out and about exploring our world, I love spending time in my kitchen, cooking up meals or baking from scratch.

Now, if you appreciate someone making you something homemade or you want someone who will bore you with consistency, but still make you giggle and bring out that inner child and care for you, I’m your man. Let me make your favorite dishes. I may not make it right the first time but consistency is the key. I can promise you real effort would be made both to care for you and make you laugh your ass off.

One of my childhood role models is Gomez and Morticia, and I strive for a relationship similar to that. You know at my core I'm not just a lover boy. I'm a soft domme with set boundaries and expectations. I’m all about that intense romance, total devotion, and keeping things playful. I do like a little bit of spice in my life whether that’s inside a good spicy book or on my dinner plate, you know? And when it is time to settle down, I’m usually messing around with my house plants or a project or locked into a solid good story.

Now speaking of spice behind closed doors, I enjoy a good spicy book and I’m just as likely to chase you in the woods and hang you from a swing as I am to get down on my knees between yours. I’m not afraid to use toys. The flesh is willing, but the flesh has two hands and a mouth. I really just want to find a genuine connection where we can both have a blast together, but still be serious about having a future.

And just you know as a boundary on values, I’m a leftist and I’m heavy into humanitarian rights like women’s rights, the rights of our LGBTQ plus community, and the current ongoing struggle in West Asia. Just because I am soft-spoken does not mean that I'm not willing to stand up for what I believe in. Being aligned on these matters matters very much to me when it comes to the future.
My schedule is totally flexible and I prefer to host whenever you want to come over.
Now, if you’re down for some cozy spice, take a taste. Let's see if we mix.